Monthly Archives: January 2014

My New Box

I’ve done it. It feels so… So… L-E-G-I-T-I-M-A-T-E. I got a post office box. A big one, too. Now you can send me stuff! Want me to see the cool bow ties you make, the all-in-one-bottle-opener-ball cap you designed, your wife’s prized petunias? You name it. Use the post office box.

I want to hear from you! Want to send a good old fashioned letter? (That’s on paper, with a pen, an envelope, and postage – gasp!). Use the post office box. Have something funny you want me to see? You know the drill.

For my part, I promise to read it, look at it, see it. I think I will even showcase rad things that people send. Won’t that be fun? That is, unless you send panties. Though I am a fan of panties in general, I rather enjoy my wife’s. And, at any rate, I don’t think she would appreciate them. Right.

So here we go:


PO BOX 27870





There. It’s all settled. I’ve a post office box and I’d like you to fill it up with fun letters and whatnot. =:o) Box jokes are too obvious, but feel free to fill in the blanks.

It’s Butch to send ButchOnTap mail. Be Butch. Or if you are Femme, it’s Femme to send ButchOnTap mail. Be Femme.


X Marks the Spot

Hi all. I’m headed to surgery bright and early this morning. So early, in fact, that it’s dark outside. The thought is they will rebuild my Bicep and clean up my rotator cuff or labrum (which sounds dirty every time I say it). I’m butch enough to admit some trepidation. Hell, I’ll even call it fright. Sigh.

Upside? It’s a POWERLIFTING injury. Heh. Not a I’m-so-clumsy injury or an I’m-too-out-of-shape injury. As one of my trainers said, I earned this one. I am gonna hold onto that!

It will be hard to need so much help for a bit, but that’s a whole other story and I don’t have time to write it just now. I will be offline for a few days to rest and recover. But also, I’m pretty sure the pain meds might make me type something ill-advised. Wink.

Have a good couple of days!

It’s butch to take care of yourself – even when it hurts. Be Butch.


Wedding-y Wit & Wisdom: How to Propose to a Princess (Part I)

I wanted to propose to my gorgeous amazing femme. But how? I knew it had to be …

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